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by Jim Manney


Adaptability

St. Ignatius, advising a young Jesuit about how to speak to others:

“In dealing with people of position or influence, if you are to win their affection for the greater glory of God our Lord, look first to their disposition and accommodate yourselves to them. If they are of a lively temper, quick and merry of speech, follow their lead in your dealings with them when you talk of good and holy things, and do not be too serious, glum, and reserved. If they are shy and retiring, slow to speak, serious and weighty in their talk, use the same manner with them, because such ways will be gratifying to them, “I have become all things to all people” (1 Corinthians 9:22).”